I'm your Wife not your Mother!

A frequent lament heard from women is, “I’m his wife, not his mother! He should just do it without my asking or reminding.” But women need to understand that we men truly need the wonderful women in our lives to help us with the things that don’t come naturally to us. Expecting us to intuitively be like you just ain’t gonna happen. Men aren’t like that. Wives need to learn how to get their husbands to do things by asking for what they want or need, asking more than once, asking the right way, and using bartering, incentives and a language we understand. We love that stuff and you can get us to do most anything for you. That makes you our helper not our mother. We want you and need you to be our wives and our helpers, just like God intended.